For years, Evan Sterett’s relationship with his lover had become a “re-run of the same play”. Ivan wanted space; Her boyfriend wanted commitment. But one summer, their relationship got a guest star—a third partner who revived their joie de vivre.
Today, we hear Evan’s story about navigating the complex geometry of Throophood. Then, we meet Samatra and April Doyle. They do not live together and do not co-parent, but they are married and intend to be together forever.
Today’s essay was written by Evan Sterrett and read by McLeod Andrews.
Modern Love is hosted by Anna Martin and produced by Julia Botero, Cristina Jossa, Alyssa Dudley and Hans Bueto. The show is edited by Sarah Sarsohn, and our executive producer is Jane Poynt. The episode was mixed by Sophia Lanman and recorded by Maddie Masiello. It features original music by Sophia Lanman and Marion Lozano. Our theme music is by Dan Powell.
Special thanks to Daniel Jones, Mia Lee, Kelly Coyne, Mahima Chablani, Jeffrey Miranda, Renan Borelli, Nina Lassam, Julia Simon, and Anna Diamond at Audm.
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